Listen, we’re all stressed out. All of us. It’s been a week. It’s been a year. Between the pandemic, the election, the natural disasters – who could blame anyone for wanting to take a break and just feel good? So, we rounded up the best sex toys and tools out there. Sex toys have changed a lot, and there’s a whole generation of toys that aren’t so intimidating. They’re created for women, by women. And that is certainly something we can get behind.
Do yourself a favor and run a bath, have a glass of wine, watch an old Paul Newman movie, have a date night with your partner. Whatever works for you! Arousal is so personal, and you know what you like best. For the fashionista’s out there, treat yourself to a piece that’s as stylish as it is satisfying, look no further than the Crave. It looks a lot like Joan’s signature pen necklace in Mad Men, but it’s a lot more fun. Or maybe this sleek, subtle Palma vibrator ring?
If there’s a trendy sex toy, then it would be anything that Dame is making. Their pastel colored, amoeba-shaped toys are gentle instead of aggressive, and their newest one is POM. It’s USB-chargeable and medical-grade silicone. Don’t forget to use their Alu, which is a water-based lubricant. That means it’s safer for you or anyone with sensitive skin.
I never thought I’d be saying this, but have you ever seen a vibrator that as pretty as Le Wand? Cordless, compact, and lightweight, this little metallic pink number is a modern update to the bulkier wand Samantha loved so much in Sex and the City.
If you’re serious about pleasure, then invest in a Pulse. The sleek futuristic display means that that the average person would never guess what it is: a warming dispenser for your lubricant. Because as we age, our bodies change. But our pleasure shouldn’t have to.
And do yourself a favor and check out Tabu. This one was designed for women our age. And if I do say it works quite well.
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All of our recommendations are curated by Susan & the In The Groove editorial team. In some, but not all cases, we receive a small commission for leading you to what, how and where to buy all this wonderful stuff.